How to deal with people who are arrogant, ignorant, condescending and full of false pride who seek to belittle you, your success and tear you down in an effort to make themselves feel better about their shitty lives.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is twenty-three and has had a total of two relationships in his short life. He starts out by complimenting me on what he has learned from reading my book, but then goes on a rant that reeks of false pride, arrogance, ignorance and condescension as he tries to belittle me, my work and my methods that have helped tens of thousands of men and women all over the world to improve the quality of their lives and personal relationships. This is a prime example of the type of self-hating and self-loathing kind of people who go through live tearing other people down in order to build themselves up and make themselves feel better, even though inside they feel like a giant pile of steaming dog-dung. I discuss why you must tune these kinds of people out and can’t let them discourage or influence the pursuit of your grandest goals and dreams.
“People who are happy, abundant and loving, only have encouraging and kind words for everyone, even those who are struggling or not as successful as they are. They build people up and sincerely rejoice in the success of other people. Miserable people, who hate themselves and their lives, go through life looking for opportunities to tear other people down and belittle them in an effort to ease their own suffering and feel better about their shitty lives. The next time you encounter another human turd in the punchbowl, just remember that no one will ever do or say anything that is not a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves in a moment. Don’t take it personally because it’s not you, it’s them.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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