I just saw a poll asking the question: How likeable do you believe yourself to be?
a. Not likeable
b. Somewhat likeable
c. Very likeable
d. Extremely likeable
My mind immediately went to b. Somewhat likeable. And I couldn't help but ponder to myself - why am I not more likeable than that? Or, perhaps I am more likeable than I give myself credit for.
One word came screaming into my brain: Confidence.
Confidence is key to so many things, and i'll be blunt - being confident makes you more likeable! As I think about it while I'm writing this, it becomes more clear.
I am drawn to people who are confident and immediately attracted to them / their personality. And I want stay away from people who are lacking confidence.
Confidence is sexy. It makes you into a better person. It makes you more physically attractive. It makes you more emotionally attractive. And best of all, it makes the people around you more attractive. Be Confident.
Just don't take it too far and be cocky ;)
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