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Outlooks & Setbacks Saturdays

Positive & Negative Attitudes

Strategies To Be More Upbeat

If you’re anything like me, you know it can be a struggle to stay upbeat in a negative world.

 

It seems that everywhere you turn, there’s something to drag you down - but in a world of negativity, let’s be people who choose to be grateful instead.

 

So with that in mind, here are a few strategies that I am using to be more upbeat everyday:

 

  1. Practice Being Grateful: I know this one always tops these types of lists and it can sometimes feel so contrived…but it tops the list because it’s that important. It’s easy to focus on what’s going wrong. I start every day by focusing on how grateful I am for the life I’m living. I have a beautiful family, a cozy, warm house to live in, a healthy body, and so much more. While these are the things we so often take for granted, take a moment to consider how fortunate you are if you have any of those things! This practice forces my brain to seek out the positive before the day's stressors even begin. It shifts the internal dialogue from 'what's missing' to 'what I have.'

  2. Cut Out The Negative Media: The news cycle (and social media!) is often designed to focus on conflict and disaster, or things that create comparison. Subconsciously, these things begin to take over. I have cut back on doom-scrolling and I intentionally do not watch the news any longer. Instead, I seek out beautiful, uplifting music or a great podcast where I can learn something new.

  3. Move Your Body: There is a direct, undeniable link between physical movement and mental state. When I feel my mood sinking, I make it a point to get outside, even if it's just for a 10-minute walk. This doesn’t have to be a hard workout; just moving your body can be enough to break a negative funk. I make sure to move my body at least 5 days per week because this is crucial for my mood and wellbeing.

  4. Connect with Optimistic People: Attitudes are contagious. Surround yourself with people who genuinely try to see the good in situations and who inspire you. I've noticed that after spending time with my more upbeat friends, I feel more energized and less weighed down by minor annoyances. Conversely, spending too much time with the  complainers and victim mentality people can be draining, so be mindful of who you allow into your inner circle.

  5. Do Things That Bring You Joy: Being upbeat isn't about ignoring problems; it's about giving yourself regular, planned moments of refreshment. This could be anything from savoring a cup of coffee without distractions, listening to a favorite podcast during your commute, or spending time on a hobby. These scheduled “finding joy” activities give us something positive to look forward to and replenish our reserves.

Recommended Book

Positivity

Dec 29, 2009
ISBN: 9780307393746

Interesting Fact #1

Perhaps one of the more surprising positivity facts is that the power of positive thinking could make you better at your job. Scientists are now beginning to realize that optimism helps us build on our skill sets and utilize our inner resources.

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Interesting Fact #2

In the same way that positivity can make you more skilled, it can also make you more receptive to new information. This, Frederickson theorizes, is because thinking positive thoughts broadens your sense of what's possible and makes you more adaptive to learning.

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Interesting Fact #3

A recent study examined a group of 90 students and split them into two groups. One group wrote about intensely positive experiences for three consecutive days, while the other wrote about a control topic. Scientists assessed the students after three months and found that those who wrote about positivity experienced less sickness than those who didn’t.

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Quote of the day

“Don't be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart.” ― Roy T. Bennett

Article of the day - The Power of Positive Thinking

Here’s heartwarming news: People with a family history of heart disease who also had a positive outlook were one-third less likely to have a heart attack or other cardiovascular event within five to 25 years than those with a more negative outlook.

That’s the finding from Johns Hopkins expert Lisa R. Yanek, M.P.H., and her colleagues. The finding held even in people with family history who had the most risk factors for coronary artery disease, and positive people from the general population were 13 percent less likely than their negative counterparts to have a heart attack or other coronary event.

Yanek and her team determined “positive” versus “negative” outlook using a survey tool that assesses a person’s cheerfulness, energy level, anxiety levels and satisfaction with health and overall life. But you don’t need a survey to assess your own positivity, says Yanek. “I think people tend to know how they are.”

Hope and Your Heart

The mechanism for the connection between health and positivity remains murky, but researchers suspect that people who are more positive may be better protected against the inflammatory damage of stress. Another possibility is that hope and positivity help people make better health and life decisions and focus more on long-term goals. Studies also find that negative emotions can weaken immune response.

What is clear, however, is that there is definitely a strong link between “positivity” and health. Additional studies have found that a positive attitude improves outcomes and life satisfaction across a spectrum of conditions—including traumatic brain injury, stroke and brain tumors.

Can You Boost Your Bright Side?

Although a positive personality is something we’re born with and not something we can inherently change, Yanek says, there are steps you can take to improve your outlook and reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease.

Simply smile more.

A University of Kansas study found that smiling—even fake smiling—reduces heart rate and blood pressure during stressful situations. So try a few minutes of YouTube humor therapy when you’re stomping your feet waiting in line or fuming over a work or family situation. It’s difficult not to smile while watching a favorite funny video.

Practice reframing.

Instead of stressing about a traffic jam, for instance, appreciate the fact that you can afford a car and get to spend a few extra minutes listening to music or the news, accepting that there is absolutely nothing you can do about the traffic.

Build resiliency.

Resiliency is the ability to adapt to stressful and/or negative situations and losses. Experts recommend these key ways to build yours:

  • Maintain good relationships with family and friends.
  • Accept that change is a part of life.
  • Take action on problems rather than just hoping they disappear or waiting for them to resolve themselves. 

Definitions

Cardiovascular (car-dee-oh-vas-cue-ler) disease: Problems of the heart or blood vessels, often caused by atherosclerosis—the build-up of fat deposits in artery walls—and by high blood pressure, which can weaken blood vessels, encourage atherosclerosis and make arteries stiff. Heart valve disorders, heart failure and off-beat heart rhythms (called arrhythmias) are also types of cardiovascular disease.

Immune response: How your immune system recognizes and defends itself against bacteria, viruses, toxins and other harmful substances. A response can include anything from coughing and sneezing to an increase in white blood cells, which attack foreign substances.

Question of the day - What is one small, daily thing you do to boost your mood?

Positive & Negative Attitudes

What is one small, daily thing you do to boost your mood?